Feel like they do everything for everyone else and no one can lift a finger to help you out? Our daughter’s family birthday party is tomorrow. She is from my husband’s first marriage and is turning 9. I understand that I am on maternity leave, and that my husband has been at work but I’ve been toting around our 6 week old trying to get decorations, things to make the decorations of her cheerleading theme because everything I saw online was extremely expensive, ordering cakes and food, cleaning, on top of getting the grocery shopping done. I always cook dinner before they get home so that when they walk in they can sit down and eat. Anyways, my husband comes in and criticized that I used the winded multisurface to clean...even though it is multisurface... then I serve everyone’s plates put them at the table as they are just standing around. Our son starts fussing so I get up and make his bottle get him to comfort him. As I am feeding him, they both finish and neither of them ask if they can clear my place or handle the dishes while I finish feeding him. When he came in he also brought in my baby bejourn from his truck and asked where I wanted it since I had cleaned the first floor for he party tomorrow. I was like upstairs in the nursery, I go to put my daughters dolls on the steps to go back up to her room- which she left in the middle of the family room as she ran out to go play- and low and behold there is he baby carry...on the steps. Must have been too heavy to be carried up to the nursery at the top of the stairs where my husband went to change out of his dress clothes. He stated that he wanted to go out and power wash the patio, I said well why don’t you just do it in the morning so you can hang out with Connor (also so I can have just a second to not worry about someone else needing something) and he goes no, I’m just gonna do it today and goes outside. 🙈 anyways thanks for letting me vent..