What would you do 😭

I live in a small town and I’m going to use fake names.

There is a wedding happening tomorrow. The groom is Connor and the bride is Alicia. My husband is the best man in the wedding.

Last night the groomsmen were all together celebrating at a bar. Connor happened to kiss my best friend Jane while they were outside. She pushed him off and told him he shouldn’t be doing that. The next day Connor texted Jane begging for nude pictures of her.

I’ve told my husband how disgusting this is but he’s “not going to get involved”.

I don’t really feel like going to the wedding now that I know this information. I’m not okay with how he treats his soon to be wife and I feel like a wedding is a celebration of love. Am I being crazy??

The other side of me says this is not my issue. Unfortunately I’m not at all friends with the bride so I feel like it’s not my place to tell her. Ugh! What would you guys do? Like I said the wedding is TOMORROW.