I confided in my boyfriend about some insecurities I’m having in our relationship. He hadn’t texted me or called me all day and that’s been happening more and more frequently so I felt really afraid of losing him, and scared that he didn’t care as much about me.

Well, he basically just told me that he was too tired to deal with it and that he was going to sleep. I feel so hurt that he knew I was hurting and feeling insecure and he just left me on my own.

It hurts even more because I’ve stayed up for hours and hours just to make sure he was okay. I feel like he doesn’t care anymore. We’ve been together over a year now and I just feel like he doesn’t care anymore. At the beginning of our relationship he’d stay up a half hour or so after I fell asleep to make sure I was okay (I had bad nightmares). Now I’m lucky if he even talks to me at night. I don’t know what to do. One of the reasons I fell in love with him is how caring and thoughtful he was. I feel like he’s changed now.