If they get you pregnant, you’ll just stick around no matter what they do? 😫 2 months in, my boyfriend (31, so NOT a child) took the condom off halfway through sex so I didn’t realize it until right after. I had told him to be extra careful because I knew I was ovulating. I took plan B but baby stuck anyway. I know he intentionally knocked me up because he wanted a child and a way to hold onto me. He was always worried about me finding someone better than him.

Now, I’m 30 weeks pregnant and it’s been nearly a month since I last saw him. He always has an excuse, is busy, tired, worried my morning sickness is actually a bug and has too much to do to get it himself, etc.

When I confronted him about it, and told him I wanted us to at least try to be a whole family for this baby, he acted like it was no big deal “I’m just really busy lately with work and school (which is true but still) and we will be a whole family, don’t ever worry.” I thought he didn’t want me anymore but he absolutely does yet thinks I won’t walk away from the relationship simply because I’m carrying his child!

I don’t understand how some men (and women) think pregnancy secures the relationship and that’s all they need!

Sorry to vent, just seriously fed up and tired of him not taking me seriously 😒