Update: my husbands parents came today and me and my husband already got our first fight since they came. And its only been few hours. I dont know how im going to remain sane for the rest of the time.

So im almost 35 weeks pregnant and this is our second baby. I have 3 year old daughter. My husband’s mom and dad r coming tomorrow to live with us for like a month. My mother in law is not a normal person. I mean she is extremely annoying when it comes to privacy and interference. Like she wants to know every detail about everything. We have not told the gender of our baby to anyone, keep it surprise untill birth. And whenever she talks to me she asks me if i know. Today she asked me again and i was so pissed off and straight forward said... if we wanted to tell we would have told long time ago. So plz dont ask me again and just wait, its just a month left. Anyways whenever they come my chores double. I mean she never helps with anything, not in kitchen. None. And this pregnancyhas been really hard for me. These days im at a point where sometimes i just dont want to talk to anyone. Just want to get it over with because im extremely exhausted and feeling pains and aches everywhere. Today i was cooking and i was on my feet for quite some time and suddenly i felt so hot and felt so numb down my waist . Like i didnt feel my legs and feet. My husband was near he got me. And helped me lied down. Felt better after sometime. But if something like this happens in front of my mother in law she thinks im over reacting and im young so i should nt feel sick or anything like that. And im so worried sick that how im gonna live with her especially in last month before my baby comes when i just want to be alone with my daughter and cherish every moment because i wont be able to give her time like i do now for a while. Also i have not done anything for coming baby yet. We have not even decided the name yet. There is so much to do. Because we just moved to new house couple of months ago so there was alot to do. Anyways im like really depressed right now because i just wanted to be alone and in peace for next few weeks but this cant happen now....