I need help my bf will watch porn but not have sex with me help! He’s 27 im 19

So my bf and I been together for almost 2 years.this has not been a problem in the past. so every time I ask him to have sex,he’s saying I’m not horny but has no problem watching porn. It makes me feel like crap. I asked him why can’t you just tell me when you’re horny instead of watching porn. His response was something along the lines of “I just wanna jerk to jerk when I have sex with you I want it to mean something.” I asked him if he’s still attracted to me and everything he’s says yes. He says it has to deal with stress and money but when he was dealing with something stressful he was fine with sex. I honestly don’t know what to do at this point.