I have been wanting to have a true D/s relationship with someone for years. I recently found someone that was as serious about kink & bdsm as I am, and began to pursue a D/s relationship with him. Unfortunately, I think we rushed into it. We talked about D/s stuff the first time we met/hooked up, and by the 2nd time, he had already given me some rules and we got to try out a little bit of punishment (that I had definitely earned for being bratty) involving choking, slapping, and spanking. After he left, a few days later, I went on a date with a guy that I had been talking to briefly. The date was incredible and I really felt like we had strong feelings for each other. Here’s the tricky part, i’ve only seen my Dom twice. After that second time, I realized that I only see him in a sexual way, and that what I really want right now is a serious relationship. I want to fall in love. i know the sex with my Dom will fulfill all my wildest fantasies, but the date I went on truly made me feel good about myself, and happy. I feel like i’ve kind of already made up my mind about the situation, but I still feel a little shitty about ending things with my Dom after we had just figured out the terms of our relationship. Any advice/reassurance would be super helpful right now.