No men at baby shower

BoyMommy19 • Mommy to one beautiful baby boy born November 2019 💙

My mom is throwing me a baby shower and said no men aloud which even means my husband cannot come. Is this weird? Most people I know have men at baby showers but my mom says the shower she is throwing me is a formal lady's brunch. Anybody did this before? I feel bad not having my husband or men of the family a part of it. However his mom is throwing me a shower in my yard and everyone is invited. It'll be like a casual cookout with men and kids...