Name war

I never take names so seriously. To me a name is just a name.... but my mom says I MUST put Anthony as a first name to "honor" my father and grandfather who never even "approved" of my relationship/marriage. My husband says Elizandro WILL be his first name and Anthony his middle name. At this point idk what to put because someone is going to end up so upset either way..... I am having anxiety about it because my parents and my husband have very strong personalities and opinions about things. I'm the only mellow one and everyone else's vibes and ego stress me out. I'm 24 weeks pregnant and a damn name shouldn't be something I have to stress about. 😭