Is it okay to have more than one night stand?

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I know its a stupid question, but I felt really guilty. Like.. in a week, I could hook up with one different guy. We always use protection. So far I had one night stand with 3 guys. I felt really guilty after. But I can't blame it either, I'm a lonely girl, I have no girl friends, mostly just guys, and I don't have someone to talk to. I felt better after having a pillow talk with my one night stand.

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It’s okay for consenting adults to have sex

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Do you plan on getting married in the future?

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If it makes you guilty honey then maybe something's wrong deep down for you? I feel like you're looking for like an emotional connection that you can't find or you're afraid of finding so you settle for physical actions. Then again I am just assuming. If you wanna have hookups then I'd say go for it as long as the boys are aware and you're not hurting anyone's feelings.

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First of all there’s nothing wrong with hooking up with people as long as you’re using protection and regularly being tested (condoms don’t prevent everything) 
Most people see sex as like this sacred thing that you should only do with someone you love and it’s literally just a social construct. That’s the reason you feel guilty. Sex is natural, and therapeutic. You do not need to feel guilty for finding pleasure with people. 
If you need to feel guilty about something, feel guilty about the fact that you’re kinda cheating yourself. I’m saying that because you said you have no friends, and pretty much the only reason you’re hooking up with people is to feel a connection with them afterwords that you would get from a friend. You deserve to have friends, nobody should have to be lonely. I think you should focus on meeting a new friend because it will benefit you so much. These hookups are mostly only people you’ll know for a short while, when you could be making a life time friend. So in short, you’re not doing anything wrong.. you’re just going about it in the wrong way and it’s unfair to you in the long run. Be better to yourself

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As long as you're okay with it then that's all that matters, I don't see it as wrong. Just don't rely on that to make you happy.

Is it okay to have more than one night stand?

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