UPDATE: Has Anyone’s Husband Given Up?

Val • Christian | Wife | Mother | YouTube Channel "Errick & Val Coleman" | 6yrs TTC | Severe MFI | IVF Mar.’21 | FET April ‘21 | Successful FET | Currently Pregnant ☺️

My husband has given up on getting help because of his past semen analysis. He said that if it doesn’t happen naturally then it just won’t happen. We had one more option for InvoCell, but he isn’t interested whatsoever. It’s been over 4yrs of TTC. He is 31 & I will be 33 in Sept. I have a 10yr old, my husband has no children. Anyone experienced this? How is your husband coping with male factor?


Since this post, we have started going to counseling with our Pastor & his wife. They had no idea we were going through this. I’ve been praying a whole lot y’all & just watching my actions towards my husband tbh. Hubs agreed to get his bloodwork done for InvoCell but as of now, that’s it. He also wants to go to the doctor so that we can get our results. Both of these are huge! He was real bent on not doing ANYTHING & NEVER going to the doctor. So, the change is big in my eyes. Not sure what the doctor will say to us after reading our results but my current prayer is Thanking God for the small victories now & that He would give my husband a cheerful heart to move forward with treatment. Our appt is set up for Thursday, August 15th. I will keep you all posted.

Update 11/1/20

It’s been 5+yrs since we started TTC. Recently on 10/15/20, my husband came to me and told me that we could start <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> treatment! We hadn’t did InvoCell bc the doctor wasn’t willing to do what we were asking for with 2 embryo transfer. It’s been a very long road. I’m thankful to God that my husband has decided to officially move forward. He was so against it for so long. I’m expecting a Spring transfer Lord spare.