My man is trying to stop me from starting to go to the gym because the thought makes him “uncomfortable”. His reasoning is that I am “putting myself out there”, “gyms are the second most common place for affairs”, and because I have a history with a couple guys at the gym.

I am 4 months pp and not working. I need something to do during the day when he’s not home and also want to get fit. I used to work out every day!!

I have been trying to include him by telling him we can go together when he gets home from work but he doesn’t want to.