Hey all,

So my fiancé and I haven’t had sex in 6 months and it’s starting to get to me. I’m not the kind of girl who need sex all the time (probably less than most people, and tbh I’m a huge fan of my vibrator/solo time), but I’m just a bit worried about it having been 6 months?

I’m 100% sure he’s not cheating or doing anything nefarious. He’s put some weight on recently and feels down, so he’s just not in the mood. And I totally understand that, it’s just that 6 months is starting to get draining on me.

The only time he’s in the mood is in the mornings, but I’m a serious grumpy bum when I first wake up and I haven’t been able to bring myself to do anything sexual. I’ve told him many times that he’s sexy and amazing and I’ve tried to get him in the mood but he’s just not into it (and obv i don’t want to push/be disrespectful.).

Any of you have advice for me? <3.

Thanks!!