Help. Am i crazy?

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When I was pregnant (then had a miscarriage) people would constantly come to me and say that others were pregnant too. This made me soooooooo mad. I know I should be happy for others but all I could think about was like: I dont care about other people being pregnant, why are u telling me this? Help!! Am I crazy? Is this normal? Wtf is wrong with me. Now I’m afraid that this will happen again if I ever get pregnant again

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I don't know why you'd get upset, they're just trying to relate in some weird way.

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I can't find the right words to phrase what I'm thinking so, hopefully this makes sense. No you're not crazy. You were pregnant and it was about you, then suddenly it was about Suzie in accounting and Mary down the road and you had to share your spotlight. I'm generally not a jealous person, but I am prone to bouts of the green eyed monster occasionally.🤷‍♀️ And when you're sharing your good news, whether that be an engagement, a pregnancy, hell a promotion at work, you want that focus on you because it's a milestone in your life and while its human nature to find common ground to continue a conversation, it still kind of poops on your own parade. And, I've also just had shitty days where I'm just like oh, who the hell cares what Betty is doing?😂😂😂 You're okay. If you find that this happens more often than not, then I'd say you might want to look into it, but every now and again, it's okay to want the limelight all to yourself.

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Going through a miscarriage is an absolutely horrible thing to go through. 
I think it’s normal to go through a period of feeling like this, as it’s a reminder of what you’ve lost..... 
So no, I don’t think you’re crazy. 
It’ll take time, and you’ll gradually find it easier.

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You are not crazy. And it hurts like hell. I understand this completely.

Help. Am i crazy?

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