so my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over 2 months now. i live in missouri and he lives in florida. i drove to florida to see him last month. it was a 15 hour drive. it was well worth it. he’s moving to texas next week to finish his college football. which means he will then be 8 hours away from me. i’m helping him financially get there and settled for the price of $400. (i don’t have money like that but i like to make sure he has everything he needs especially if it means it’s for his future).

before i sent the money, i wanted to go through his snapchat. we’re 15 hours away so how do i know if he’s being loyal or not??

so i went through his snap and didn’t find anything to send a red flag up. his blocked list was full of girls, which is cool. i scrolled back to 8 weeks ago and there was a girl he was messaging, saying the same shit he says to me??? so i removed her. that was when we first got together tho so it’s cool. i went through his pictures and found some snaps of his ex who cheated on him. then thought i can’t get mad bc i have videos of my ex... lots of them. from almost a year ago. when i first asked him to log onto his snap, he ignored me for an hour but was active on snap.. and when i asked today it took him a while to respond w his password. (he’s had all my passwords to everything for a month). but there was NO girls up until 8 weeks ago. so i’m thinking maybe he logged on to deleted a bunch of stuff so i wouldn’t catch him?? or what the deal is.. i’m not sure how i’m feeling. was that wrong of me? should i leave it alone?

i send this $400 tomorrow.. am i sending it for nothing ??