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Three days ago, I had sex with my boyfriend.It was very good.He ejaculated twice,after that I said I wanna do it again.He said it would take time for him as he already ejaculated twice.He was in hurry to attend his class he couldn't miss.Is it really so that it takes time? And next thing is he hasn't talked to me about the evening we had sex,like no discussion or reviews. I even asked him,if he's regretting but he said he isn't.I feel bad that he has talked to me about everything else in the two days else than our sex evening. I don't know what I should do,I'm feeling bad. what should i be like? please help

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I'm confused as to why you have to talk about your sex session, why is there to talk about? The fact that he couldn't 3x in a row or to see if he even liked it? Sex is sex I don't see a need for discussion days after. If anyone I was with wanted to talk about our sex after the fact I would think they have insecurities or something I'm sorry I don't mean to offend but I find that weird that you think there is something wrong bc he don't bring it up.

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Men do need some time after they ejaculate. My boyfriend and I usually wait an hour or so just so he's not super sensitive. Also, why do you need to talk about the sex? That's a little odd, in my opinion.

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It takes guys a lot longer to recuperate after orgasm than it does ladies (unless they have help.from the little blue pill). And after him having two, it would definitely take a while to be ready to go again. Maybe he's unhappy with himself that he couldn't give you more and that's why he's quiet about it...? Just make sure he knows you still care about him and all that jazz and let things blow over. Good luck honey :)

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How old are you?  Was that your first time?  What is it exactly that you want him to talk about from that evening?

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Yes, men do need time in between to be able to go again. It's called a refractory period. I'm not sure why he's not talking about it. Maybe he's uncomfortable talking about it? Just ask him and tell him youd like to discuss it.

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