Should I break up with my bf?

My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. I love him but I am tired of his attitude. He does not care about my feelings. He is depresed because he has always wanted to be rich and famose his whole life and now has realized that he is going to have a normal life. I have asked him what is wrong with having a normal life and he says that a normal life is not good enough for him. He constantly complains about having to work a normal job like everyone else. He seems to think that the world owes him something. He insults my family to my face and constantly makes fun of me and calls me cruel names “as a joke” yet claims that he loves me. He is very rude to me for no reason at all. He calls my sister a whore and says that all my friends are dumb whores. I called him out on him not caring about my feelings and he said that I was not being fair to him by saying that because he was there for me when I was in the hosbitle when I attemped suicide a few months ago. He says that he loves me. I dont know what to do am I being selfish or is he? Should I break up with him?

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M

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I’d leave him. Life is short, spend it with someone who build you up!

Ca

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Yes you should break up with him. This is not love- you do not treat the person you love so poorly.

An

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Red flags! Throw him away.
Red flags! Throw him away.

Be

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Cut him loose! He sounds like a miserable, entitled, soul sucking person. I don't know how you stayed with him. I have depression (and a couple other things) that had me a sneeze away from being hospitalized last summer. Mental health issues aren't an excuse to be an asshole or treat people like garbage.

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He sounds like a dickhead.

F

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If a partner was rude and disrespectful like that to my family and friends that would be an absolute deal breaker for me personally.....

de

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Yeah the guy is a dick. Maybe if he was nicer he might get closer to his dreams. Instead of insulting people. You deserve better

Sh

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Get rid of him. He sounds awful. Better to be alone for a bit until you find your person who will treat you well.

Je

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If you have to ask, then you already know. Being single is lonely at times, but being valued and loved is worth more. This behavior is NOT okay. This behavior WILL escalate. And this behavior MIGHT kill you eventually. Get out while you can, do everything in your power to stay safe, and no more dating fuckboys. Good luck.

Ma

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