What time should 12 weeks old be waking up?

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My fiance freaks out when our daughter wakes up at 7 am? She goes to bed at 10 pm..and wakes to eat at 4 and then sleeps till 7. Its to the point where he screams at me every morning before i go to work and makes me take her to my moms before work instead of him watch her. ALWAYS FINDS A way to blame it on me. says "you need to stop pulling her out of the bassinet at 7" 
So let her lay there and thrash and be hungry? 
I dont know what to do anynore. Its making me a nervous wreck anticipating the mornings coming. I cant handle it

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Your fiancé needs a reality check. Babies have their own schedules.

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That is a tiny human being that sleeps when they want and wakes up when they want. Tf. I wouldn’t keep him as a fiancé if he is screaming at you because of your baby. Like that is just a douchey thing to do. Boy bye 🤦🏻‍♀️

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🙄 oh well that’s too bad! babies have their own schedule tell him to get over it.

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He sounds like a douche.  Your baby sleeps way better than ours.  We still sleep in shifts at my house.
I’ve heard it’s “normal” for a mom to need to soothe their crying baby whereas the dad either doesn’t register it as quickly or is genetically predisposed to not care as much.
We tried cosleeping with bassinet near our bed for a week but even when it wasn’t my “turn” I was awake bc my husband would let our newborn cry for at least 10 minutes at a time.  He’s done 0 research on babies and heard somewhere about crying it out and doesn’t understand that comes much later!
Even yesterday during my sleep shift I heard the baby crying for 10 minutes straight, opened my bedroom door stomped down the stairs and picked him up all while hubby was just sitting on the couch with his phone supposedly waiting to see if he’d calm himself down.  😬.  I don’t jump when I hear sleep fussing anymore bc I know he’s just tossing and turning but he was wailing to the point it woke me a floor and closed door away.  
Yea men suck.

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Babies usually wake up between 6 and 7 so yall are lucking out by an hour. You can try blackout shades if your not already using them to keep sunlight from entering the room it may or may not buy you more time. You may also want to move bedtime earlier to combat fussiness but again prob wont do anything for wake time. Sidenote your fiance sounds like a real gem 😒

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She’ll probably start wanting to go to bed earlier soon but that sounds like a perfect time for a baby to wake up in the morning. Not unreasonable at all and waking once at 4 to eat sounds totally normal as well. Sounds like he’s having a really hard time adjusting to having a child who is naturally inconvenient and reliant on the two of you. Children are the best blessings ever but for sure it’s hard to get used to. I’m sorry he’s making you so anxious! Just know she’s acting like a wonderfully normal baby and your fiancé is having a hard time adjusting to fatherhood 😬 you’re not doing anything wrong!

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Babies wake up when they wake up 🤷🏻‍♂️ Sounds like he’s being a bit of a jerk about it. I wake mine up at 6:45 every day to keep him on his schedule for daycare, today of course he chose to start crying at 6:35 🙄

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Does your fiancé go to doctor appts for the baby with you? Maybe discuss it with the doctor so he had to hear it from a professional. That’s just how babies are! My little one used to wake up at 4:30 am and stay awake. She’s recently moved it to 6 am.  Sounds like fiancé needs a reality check quickly.

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My daughter goes to be at 9 pm wakes up at 2 for a bottle then again maybe at 6 and is up for the day at 9. If she’s Moving around in the bassinet then it’s time for us to get up 🤷🏻‍♀️tired or not I have to get up and be on her schedule she’s not on mine.

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Well he sounds like a piece of shit fiance and dad and I'd absolutely not deal with that and be on my way. Babies are all different. There isn't a certain time all babies wake up! If the baby is hungry, needs a change, uncomfortable or just wants to wake up they will, at anytime they wish..... I'm sorry you're putting up with such an awful person.

What time should 12 weeks old be waking up?

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