Confused

I need some help, so I’m not really great in relationships like i leave them or stay away from them because I don’t like to deal with commitment ( it scares me ) but I met this young man he’s 22 & I’m 23. He’s a great, he’s kind & he’s patient with me.. now this is where the confusion comes in....... I HAVE 2 children & I don’t know how to go about this because I don’t like people meeting or being around my kids but he really wants too.. & idk what to do about it he wants to start building but he’s like we can’t build & create a bond if he does meet my kids..

What should I do ?

Leave ? Or Stay?