I’m 11 almost 12 weeks pregnant. I’m high risk for premature labor. I have had spotting durning this pregnancy already. My mom just got home from a nursing home(she’s 50 and put herself in bad health) and has caregivers at her house. She is constantly asking me to do stuff for her, like shave her legs, brush her hair, bath her etc. I keep telling her no I can’t, and she’s saying I’m being selfish, and rude. I should want to help her.. I have my two kids to take care of as well, so I don’t get to relax much, even though I’m supposed to while spotting and not push myself to much, my ob said. Am I being selfish and rude because I won’t help her? she has caregivers there everyday.