Opinions needed...

Mummie

Ok ladies. This is going to be a long one.

A few months back my husband moved out and got an apartment above his work provided to him by his boss. Then his boss provides him with a "work" phone... (I can kinda be ok with this one because his was broken before I replaced it)

Now I'm 10 weeks pregnant and he tells me last night she wants to take him out to dinner for giving him a ride to work... She conveniently "forgot" they were doing road work outside her home and couldn't get her car out of the garage...ok fine. I've given co-workers rides home from and to work... No biggie... But being taken out for dinner because of it? No. Her husband is out of town.

I had a male friend that made some rude comments to my husband, and it made my husband uncomfortable. I didn't know about these comments until a few days later... Then I completely cut that friend out of my life out of respect to my husband.

I am not asking my husband to cut his boss out of his life because that would be ridiculous but I am asking him to be respectful of my feelings. I do believe the woman is just a generous, kind person but I feel like my toes are being stepped on... I feel like he puts her wants and needs above mine... Am I being ridiculous or am I reasonable in asking him not to go?

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