If your SO started smoking, would you stay with them?

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Yes, but I would have him quit. We are both very strongly against smoking, so it would be odd for him to start with

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Barf. Nope! Neither one of us are smokers & have never been so I would never tolerate it if he picked it up for some reason.

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I was a social smoker when I met my husband and when he found out on our first date, he told me he couldn’t date me if I smoked at all. His mother is a chain smoker so it’s a huge sore spot for him. I told him I’d have my “last cigarette” and then quit, and I did, and haven’t looked back since!

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Nope! Thankfully we both hate the smell of smoke and I have asthma. I refuse to be with a smoker.

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nope. that's a dealbreaker for me, no ifs, ands, or buts.

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My partner smoked when we 1st got together and said he’d never give it up. Here we are 5yrs later and he’s been 4yrs without smoking cigarettes. He smokes herb, when he’s in CO, I have no issue with that I’ve smoked herb. 
An I mean he’s been temped to smoke a few times but it’s always come down to he’s stressed and doesn’t want to worry me. It takes sitting down and talking with him to let him know that no matter what I’m there for him and I get things are stressful but as far as smoking he can’t I don’t want to have to tell our kids dad has cancer from smoking or watching him in his old age with a oxygen tank because he can’t go without one. 
Just talk it through giving up right away and kicking him right to the curb seems like you don’t care at all. So try and work out what’s really behind his sudden need to want to smoke.

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Yeah but he’s not coming anywhere near me smelling like it.

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No, I get physically ill from second hand smoke. So it would be smoking or me 🤷🏻‍♀️

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No, my ex smoked to begin with and I couldn’t cope with the smell that lingered round and I found it a bit rude him having to leave me disappear outside for a smoke during dates.

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I didn't know my boyfriend smoked until a few months after we got together. By then it was to late to break up because I really fell for him. Smoking was, and still is sometimes, a very big issue in our relationship because I'm completely against it. As far as I'm aware of though, he has stopped.

If your SO started smoking, would you stay with them?

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