It’s truly love and sex for me. Not connected and not the same person.

My boyfriend and I are happy, we are. We really love each other and have the time of our life when we spend time with each other.

We’re just really not sexually compatible. He and I don’t want the same things in bed. So we both agreed that it’s best to go sleep with other people.

And I did just that.

He was amazing. Absolutely huge.

We fucked for over an hour and a half.

But then he went home. It was just sex.

Love and sex can be with the same person and can be intertwined, but they also can be mutually exclusive. Sometimes you can love someone but not be sexually compatible and it’s ay-okay. Someone who believes in abstinence and saving yourself may not be the best person to have a relationship like mine and for some it’s a deal breaker, and that’s also okay. It’s your choice to decide what works for YOU.

So what does work for you! Comment below

Edit so I can reply anonymously:

He’s only into people who they first start dating and then stops being sexually attracted to them. He’s also very vanilla and never wanted to do anything anyway, even in the first few months.

Edit 2: he came out to me as ace which explains a lot