What should I do ?

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About a week ago I walked in in my husband with another woman and I don’t know if I should leave it’s the first time he’s done this that I know of we’ve been together ten years and married for five we are expecting a baby next month so I just don’t know what to do should I forgive him I love him so much and I don’t want to raise a baby alone what should I do ? I never thought he would hurt me this bad

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What did he say when you caught him and what was his excuse? Do you think eventually you'll be able to forgive him and trust again? If you do stay, how do you plan on working through this? If you want to stay and work this out, do it. If you want to leave him, do it. Ultimately the decision is yours. I have not been in this situation so I can't say forsure what I'd do but I think I would leave the man who cheated on me while I'm pregnant with our child, especially after 10 years together and he was willing to risk it all for sex. You should go to the drs and check for STDs as well.

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You’ll never be able to get that image out of your head and if you stay it will hurt more than leaving . Also a man that cheats on his pregnant wife never has respected you the way he treats you when your pregnant is the most important thing  but it’s your decision no mater what

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I personally would leave, but if he hasn’t done it before and it’s too much to throw away, maybe try counseling?

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I think many people will have different opinions on what you should do. But its whether you are able to forgive and forget. If you really want to stay, will you be able to let it go and continue a relationship. Or can you see yourself bringing it up in arguments and holding it over him. Because if so maybe its better to walk away now otherwise it will drive you apart in the future. Its a horrible thing he has done to you and maybe you could take some time before the birth for yourself to think things over.

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Well, I mean, you have a choice to make. 
You just have to ask yourself if you respect yourself more than he respects you.
If the answer is yes you will gather your self respect and leave  and if the answer is no you will continue to settle for a dude who has zero respect for you and isn't even committed to you.
Choice is yours.

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I would leave sorry but once you can do it once you can do it again

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You caught him in the act. You should leave.

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Id leave. If you stay its giving him another chance to hurt you the same way. He has no respect for you. People who love each other don’t cheat.

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Can't say what you should do... But if you think there's still a hope and chance to repair your marriage, seek counseling first before the MAJOR... Only you and he need to figure it out. Pray in the meantime for guidance (it doesn't hurt 
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