boy names (please read description)

So my BF wants to name our baby after him if it’s a boy, which I am totally okay with I just don’t want a JR so I would want to change the middle name and he is ok with that too. I want the middle name to be after my grandfather (Paul) who recently past away and I was extremely close with and wanted to meet the baby more than anything, but he wants the middle name to be after his grandfather (Albert) who last away like 10 years ago. I think it’s fair since it’s going to be his name (Joseph) that I should get to pick the middle name, right?