Birth control options

I’ve been having issues with my family and my boyfriend and it’s really taking a toll on the relationships in my life. I’ve been taking birth control pills for 5 or 6 years. I’m really good about taking my pill everyday and it’s very easy for me. I’ve changed the brand a few times. Last time I changed it to low estrogen to see if it would help with my crabby attitude all the time that creates problems with people I’m closest with. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 & 1/2 years and I just feel so bad that I am so rude and ungrateful towards him for no reason. Has anyone else had this issue and changing to a different form of birth control has helped?