Me, my baby, my boyfriend, my life

I feel like since I found out I was pregnant everyone is trying to tell me how to dp things and it gets so irritating. I didnt want to do a huge gender reveal so I purposely looked at the results. I wanted to do cute annoucement photos but not one of the few people except my dad could keep a secrect so cancelled those. Now all I want to do is a cute gender annoucement and everyone is constantly begging me to tell them and my mom is telling me I have to tell family tomorrow morning. Mainly my cousins which is annoying because neither of them told me when they were pregnant, I found out on Facebook, and they didnt tell me the gender either, also saw ot on facebook. I get they are excited but I just want to do things my own way.