So I have had a few friends and family who have asked if they could come over, we make plans and then they never show up.

It’s not a big deal to me.

But I’ve made it clear I don’t want people coming over unannounced and I don’t want my house to be packed with people all the time

So... now no one comes 😂

And I don’t know if I made people feel uncomfortable or like they are not welcome Over my house

But I would think if we made plans, they would know they are invited?

Some days I had made plans with people and they never showed up and I was relieved because my son was cranky/fussy

But other days I was kind of looking forward to it

I feel weird reminding people to come over, but I almost feel like I should start verifying with people that maybe I’m excited or looking forward to seeing them to maybe make them more comfortable?

But again maybe I’m overthinking and they just got busy and forgot or didn’t say anything? Lol

Idk