I looked it up and etiquette puts it at 1.5-2.5 months before the birth, but that puts me right at around Christmas or too close to my dates because I'm more likely to be premie birth because of complications.

Would it be incredibly weird to do it around the time youd do a gender reveal?

Maybe im thinking of this too early (im 9 weeks) but im still nauseous and feeling hopeful about this rainbow pregnancy. Would it be too soon to do like a fall/harvest themed/timed baby shower as to not be too close to christmas time?