My sister is... i can’t with her.

This is the start of the reasons why I cut her off. She woke me up on my birthday by calling me and telling me that her grandma died suddenly that day. Her grandma was like a grandma to me too, welcomed me with open arms and wanted me to spend the night with her and cooked me breakfast and dinner and sat with me and treated me like I was her own. “ meme is dead. Just wanted to let you know so you can think about it.” Like wtf... and she told her entire family that if I showed up to the funeral that I was going to make the whole thing about me so I was banned from her grandmas funeral which sucked really bad and made me feel horrible. She admitted to the fact that she makes her family hate me so they don’t like me more than her which is the saddest thing Ive ever heard. She still makes comments mocking the fact that she died on my birthday years later.

later on she wanted to live with me because she didn’t have a job and couldn’t pay her bills and “my baby sitters dead so I’m in a tight spot” -(talking about her own grandma) and she has two kids. I lived in a one bedroom apartment and I was like no, there’s not any room and you don’t have transportation to find a job you would be sitting in my apartment doing nothing. I don’t have food to feel you all (I was 19) and she had been telling me since j was 17 that she wanted me to get an apartment for her to live in make me pay all the bills so I said no. She’s fine by the way, figured it out and got a job and her and the kids are fine.

After that she started spreading rumors that my SO was physically and mentally abusing me (he is nowhere even remotely abusive)?and started harassing my phone while I was at work saying she needed me to come pick her up from so and so’s house and I would say “I can’t. I’m at work I can’t just leave my job.” So this pissed her off and she started making threats about showing up to my house and pouring sugar in my gas tank or some crap and I said “how’re you going to do that when you have no ride.” And hung up. She decided to go on Facebook and tell everyone how abusive my partner was. So I blocked her. Haven’t talked to her since. She is a 30 year old woman and honestly since I’ve cut her off I’ve had a lot less stress in my life. These are just main reasons, I left out a lot.

Would you have cut her off too? Because there’s a few family members that are like “she’s still your sister.” And I’m like oh you’re talking about the devil spawn, that one. I cannot deal with that anymore and I don’t know what’s wrong with her but something is deeply wrong with that woman.

*we have different moms hence the separate family part.