VBAC after emergency Csection

Maybe FMI but I’m just curious on other experiences/ struggles. My first child was a natural however she got stuck and nurse/doctor weren’t able to get forceps or even a finger in to help me through it, she eventually came but I blanked it out somehow lucky my mum was with me. My section child was emergency csection because he decided he wanted to come 3 weeks early and was coming footling breech. (foot first) I am now due to have my third child in 4-5 weeks and I’ve been given the option of trying for a VBAC or having an elective csection with the option to get my tubes done at same time should I choose. Just curious to hear other mums experiences with a VBAC after csection or did you feel csection was safer option. It’ll be 3 almost 4years between 2nd & 3rd child..