So I am 23 and just got stationed I. Norfolk, Virginia. We lived in Japan previously so moving here has been really hard. I am 11 weeks pregnant and am making plans ( I know early but I'm a planner it makes me feel better) for the birth and I'll have my husband and he is so supportive but we just found out he can get deployed any time throughout my pregnancy and for the next 3 years!!! My birth mom is toxic and I dont want her anywhere near my kids and my sisters dont agree so they arent talking to me. Idk if I'm just hormonal but being back in the states is so hard! Everybody is rude for NO REASON when I'm used to Japanese politeness and environment plus not knowing anyone and this being my first pregnancy AND moving!!! Its alot and I'm discouraged and exhausted from puking so much plus all this on my mind idk maybe im just hormonal but shit this is hard!!!!