Unsupportive boyfriend

Who has had experience with an unsupportive boyfriend while pregnant?

He isn’t mean, abusive, or anything like that but he used to talk about how he did want kids with me at some point and I get that it came early to our surprise but I didn’t expect him to be this distant. He doesn’t want to go to appointments with me which I was okay with until he refused to go to the one where I get to find out the gender (next month). 😪

He also told me not to send him any pictures of ultrasounds in the past, which I did anyways and he asked ONCE how it went, now he just doesn’t want me to talk about it, doesn’t want people knowing or me announcing it, or posting anything about it, I just don’t know how to handle this. I do give him space a lot but I feel like he should meet me halfway sometimes.

Any advice?

Should I suck it up considering we are saving for a place and at least he is in our lives? (Mine and the baby’s)