27 weeks pregnant and we’ve had sex maybe a handful of times since the first trimester. It seems no matter what I do, I’m getting turned down by my fiancé. He says he’s too tired or stressed from work. But it honestly makes me feel horrible about myself. I’m already self conscious about my belly, and my weight gain. I really try to not let it bother me because I know he does work hard with 2 jobs and then another very part time position that he’s been doing more of lately. But it doesn’t help when I have coworkers telling me how “big” I am, and how I’ve gotten big everywhere, not just my belly, making comments like “ you’re baby’s gonna be 9 pounds”

All of these things combined makes me want to stop eating when I’m hungry, or not let people see the pregnant girl eat. But that’s not good for myself or my baby. Maybe it’s just my hormones getting to me, but I’m extremely upset by this and I’m just sitting in my car crying because I’m tired of hearing it from people 3+ times a day, and then not feeling any sort of passion at home.