Just need to vent, I'll be 39 weeks preggo with my 1st child this Friday. I'm 34 years old n have been with my bf for 16 years. I am so happy we waited to this long because we are adults and able to make our own decisions about EVERYTHING.

This woman is making sooooo many plans with my baby already, I've been biting my tongue for 9 months and don't know how much longer I can stay quiet. She expects my son to sleep over her house when he is 6 months old!!! For what???? Why does my baby need to sleep with u??? She's telling me she is taking him to church when he is a couple weeks old??? 1st of all he won't be leaving my house or my site at a couple of weeks old and my boyfriend n I decided not to baptize him sooooo there won't be any church going.

There's just been one thing after another and I will only tell u all a few situations otherwise this post will be endless. I understand she is excited but I am not her daughter, I've been ignoring every text she sends me asking how I'm doing. Trying to get her to get the point to leave me alone. Am I being too mean? I'm just really irritable right now and would rather ignore her then go off and hurt her feelings.

My boyfriend is on the same page as me he actually sat her down and had a talk with her but who knows if she will listen. We are very private people and just wish she would respect all of our wishes. I would never keep my baby from his grandmother but I sure as hell will avoid her ass 🤣