Haven’t had sex in a while

I haven’t had sex with my bf in 9 months. It’s driving me crazy. I HAVE talked to him about this and he tells me he never feels good. And it’s his meds that make him that way. He’s on anxiety meds and blood pressure meds. He’s 35. I definitely do NOT try to force sex on him and instead I just lay there disappointed and eventually go to bed. Each month that passes by, I just get even more depressed from it. Not bc I’m being a big baby about it but bc I would like to have intimacy in my relationship and I haven’t for this long. Has anyone else had this problem for maybe this length of time or longer with their SO?