This is our 3rd month actively ttc

It's been 7 months since my miscariage. I was soo upset and I didn't even want to think about trying again. Two months went by and I was at peace and I decided I wanted to start trying again. We have not been usin protecting for the last 5 months but I didn't start tracking my ovulation till the last 3. So far no luck, I hope this is our month. Any other ladies is the same boat as me? I know 5 months ain't long for trying compared to some women but I just feel like some women can just look at a penis and get pregnant lol why is it so difficult!!!!