In my previous relationship, I found out 1 month before our wedding date, that he was cheating with 6 other girls so we ended it. I just wanted the whole thing to be over and I ended up taking a huge hit financially because many of the vendors wouldn’t return our down payments. Plus, we had already spent so much money on the wedding already. I decided at that point, I was just done with weddings all together. I would never have a wedding again.

Flash forward years later and I’m in a healthy relationship. We’ve been together for a long time and everything is perfect. We talked about getting married but I’ve always expressed my opinions and how it just doesn’t matter to me. My SO really wants a wedding and has told me many times how important it is to him. I don’t really want my past experiences to interfere with us so here we go again.

We got engaged and are about to set a date soon.