All these abbreviations...?

I don’t wanna seem like a salty bitch, but I’m going to be honest and say that I don’t like some of these abbreviations. So I’m wondering, if I get pregnant or want to become pregnant and then come into the forums to ask questions or vent about issues or whatever, do I have to use the abbreviations? Will I be shunned or attacked if I pick and choose abbreviations or use abbreviations that I use with my friends (with an explanation) or just don’t use any? Will I be uncool and ignored? I’m just wondering.