Who conceived while obsessing over ttc?

We’ve all heard that you have to stop stressing and then you’ll get pregnant when you least expect it blah blah blah. We also know how hard it is to turn that off and not stress about it. I want to know that it’s possible to get pregnant while stressing and obsessing over because I can’t seem to just stop worrying about it and let it happen and I’m worrying that’s ruining my chances which is making me stress that much more. Did you conceive while obsessing over it and stressing or only once you gave up?