I’m 9 weeks pregnant and I would like to wait until 12 weeks to tell my friends. But last week I had a message from a friend who said she thinks I’m pregnant. I’m annoyed she asked, as one this ruins my announcement, and two she doesn’t know how hard it has been to get pregnant in the first place. What if I wasn’t? That question would have really hurt.

Am I over reacting!? I just can’t be bothered telling my friends in a group now and think I should just do it one at a time.