To test or not to test

Kerri

So I’ve been off bc for somewhere around 2 1/2 almost 3 months. Sexually active with my partner multiple times a week sometimes per day🙈😅 anyways my last period was from July 14th-19th. No period has showed up as of yet, but my cycles before the pill were extremely irregular that being the main purpose of me being prescribed the pill at first. Back before bc sometimes I’d consider myself lucky if I had af 3-4 times a year, because it would often be even less then that. After bc it became regular, every month with at most ever only 2-3 day variation. So let’s just say I’ve had some worries about my fertility for quite some time which are growing even more now😥 So we decided to start trying just to see what will happen and if there are implications we will get to approach them earlier in life so if there would happen to be any intervention necessary we may have better odds (praying nothing will come up and to conceive naturally)🤞🙏 at the present time I’m feeling off, tired sore,hot flashes by times, mild nausea and getting a lot of hiccups and indigestion lately to name some things off. I’m in a dilemma whether to take a pregnancy test or not.I don’t know if my period is just going back to its whacky irregular self or what the deal is. I don’t want to have my hopes up and every time I take a negative test my fears about my fertility grow a little more😔 I’m just ready for a little one and hope we can be blessed sometime❤️ i would love to hear everyone’s thoughts and experiences, and your opinion on the whether to test or not dilemma. And more importantly best wishes and baby dust to all you ladies out there who could be feeling a similar way to me💕