Anyone deal with polygamy and marriage?

Question

When I first met my husband, he knew I was a polygamist, he knew I wanted to have other partners.
Well, 7 years later, I have been only with him and now I feel very unsatisfied in our physical relationship. There are things that I enjoy that he doesn't like in that reguard.
The issue has caused a strain on our marriage and he has admitted that when we were dating he never took my needs or what I told him seriously, but now what?
I feel like I am the only person who makes sacrifices in our marriaged and I am the only one who is not being satified sexually.
Has anyone else been through this? What did you do?

Answer

Do you mean you want to marry others or just have an open relationship/ swing? There’s a big difference in my opinion. You need to express it to him seriously how it’s affecting you, you did tell him from the beginning. Also could it be the 7 year itch a bit? Maybe that’s emphasising it more now too

Answer

I agree with LACE, you need to clarify what you want. Polygamy means multiple wives, maybe you’re more into polyamory or if it’s strictly sexual an open marriage/swinging. Then you need to bring the issue to your husband and see what he’s willing/open to do or if there’s a compromise to be made. If there isn’t, you may have to go your separate ways? This definitely should have been discussed, in depth before marriage because it seems like a major incompatibility issue

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I think you need to sit him down and talk to him. You both need to be happy and satisfied to have a good healthy marriage. If you’re that unhappy with just him, that’s something you need to think about. If you feel you need another partner and he can’t get behind it, it may not be the marriage for you. I’m not saying divorce him right now, but talk to him. See if you guys can work something out(l; and if not you have to decide if you can be happy in a marriage with just him.

Answer

So you want to be married to multiple husbands? Because that's polygamy. Or is it strictly a sexual relationship you are seeking? I can see why he may have been confused if you were not explicitly clear with your needs.

Anyone deal with polygamy and marriage?

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