Lately I can’t relate to my husband...💔😔

I can’t even explain it... we have been together 8 years but less than a year married (10/20=1 year). He doesn’t understand what I mean when I say I feel like he doesn’t understand me... we have a very privileged life... just built a brand new 4300sq foot home to start our family in, both very naturally happy, positive and appreciative people... happy with our overall life...both have fabulous careers, physically both super active in our lives, Attracted to each other in so many ways, and just overall grateful for the lives we live...now that’s wonderful and all, but emotionally, he just doesn’t “get” me... and i just can’t even explain to him what I mean by that... which just frustrated both of us. I hate that I don’t know how to explain it in words. It’s just a feeling. He lacks emotion himself, and i am admittedly way overly emotional... I ask him how he feels about something and his answer is completely analytical and 100% based on rational and logic and I want emotion. When I say “I mean emotionally” he says he isn’t emotional and i say well i need emotion to better understand you and you understand me... and he says emotion is just not something he expresses and he just doesn’t “feel” with emotion the way that I do. When i can’t understand that he says I must just not like the person he is at his core because he isn’t emotional and can’t relate to what I’m asking when I ask about emotion. He then thinks i am asking him to change who he is... but I’m not... It’s so frustrating and I am feeling defeated. No idea if anyone is even going to read this or understand what I am even saying... but i had to write it down somewhere so I ca. Get it off my mind and hopefully sleep without keeping myself up thinking about it. I’m just worried about overcoming this feeling. I love him so much but he thinks me wanting more emotion is me asking him to not be himself 😔💔 i just feel sad and confused....