i’ve been trying to accept and love my body. i workout everyday and watch what i eat. once i finally feel confident, my mom breaks me down. i play soccer and volleyball so my thighs are pretty big. i absolutely hate shopping with her bc whenever i show her something she goes like 😬 and ruins my confidence. she tells me that i should stop eating fast food when i normally never eat that and i WATCH what i eat. she makes me feel so insecure when i’m just having a normal day. today she hugged my brother and i and asked which one was slimmer and skinnier. then she gave me a 😬 face and said my brother. and then she said i should eat less when i never eat and she’s made me feel insecure whenever i eat and i always feel ashamed. it actually brings me to tears bc she makes me feel so ugly and disgusting. i’m a girl, so ofc i’m gonna be thicker than my brother but why do you tell me to eat less. i’m 14 weighing 120 pounds. i’m insecure enough