Family passing my baby around 🙄

My baby is due mid-October so she'll be very small during thanksgiving and Christmas . I'm gonna be going to family get together and I don't know how to go about telling people I don't want my baby passed around . I know people will be offended and will probably not wanna speak to me but y'all let's be real babies have boundaries too . Especially during winter when everyone gets sick I hardly even want my MIL to hold her . I just want her to myself and her dad . How do I get this across because I've tried and no one listens