Aggravated need advice

Katrina

Soooo we live in a co-op and are having issues with the neighbors that live behind us they keep smoking cigarettes and weed and it’s getting into our apartment through the walls and cabinets. We took the appropriate steps contacted landlord (they are on our side) contacted management and even police which I hate doing but it’s like a circle landlord tells us to contact management then they tell us to call police it’s like sooooo frustrating bc the police obv don’t want to deal with it and they made me feel very ashamed for even contacting them. Basically my issue is that I feel like it’s hazardous to live in our current apartment however can’t just get up to go bc where we would go? We currently live in NY and it’s sooo expensive so I feel like if we move it’s going to be out of state and away from my family, we have a 3 yr old I’m worried about health I just don’t know what to do it makes me shut down... any advice, thoughts, suggestions are welcome thanks!