I’m so confused! Am I terrible? What should I do?

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Okay I know I’m the worst person in the world and I don’t deserve this but my boyfriend and planned to have a baby for a while now and I was 10000% all for it and so excited and now that I just found out I’m pregnant I feel like maybe I’m regretting it now. I feel like how am I going to do this. I know nothing about being a parent and I’ve never had parents. I’m absolutely terrified and it makes me think that maybe I made a mistake 😭 am I a terrible person?

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Literally most people don’t plan pregnancy it just happens to be a lovely surprise. So that being said you’re a step ahead of the game. Next you know what you wanted from a parent as a child and didn’t like, use that as your guide and then them motherly instincts will also play a role

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My daughter is 3 and it's still terrifying lmao

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I'm 34 weeks pregnant and I'm scared out of my mind about messing up this kid and being responsible for a tiny human! Maybe I'm misunderstanding what you mean by regret but I'm totally with you on the "shit's goin down!" front.

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It’s really normal to feel this way I felt like this with my first who is now 6 and with my second who is now 9 months. You get passed all of this when you hold them in your arms. No life will never be the same but your creating a new chapter. I hated being pregnant but the bundle of joy is worth it all.

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Totally normal.. I've been hoping and praying for a baby for nearly 3 years.. I'm finally pregnant.. I'm very happy but shit scared.. just talk to ur bf about how ur feeling.. I'm sure in a way he feels just the same.

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It's normal, now that the reality is there, you worry. I think all of us do. Take a deep breath and enjoy it. Things will start coming naturally. Once you hear the heartbeat and see the ultrasound, you fall in love. It's okay to be nervous, it's a natural reaction.

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That’s definitely normal and it doesn’t make you a bad person. Congratulations

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It’s totally normal!! 🙁 I think most women feel that way; especially with their first baby.

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Thats normal. Itll pass

I’m so confused! Am I terrible? What should I do?

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