Each of mine was worse than the previous one. My first was cake. Second I had high blood pressure, anemia, severely low vitamin levels even with a healthy diet and prenatals, I ended up having to be induced. Third had a weight limit of 5 lbs, couldn’t pick my toddlers up, walk our dog, or work for that matter. No one would hire me anyways because of the weight restriction, not even fast food because of the boxes of syrup for the soda machines. I was put on bed rest 2x, and during the second trimester until even now I’ve had to stop using care products I have used for years and switch brands completely (face wash, moisturizer, shampoo and conditioner, body lotions). Water was even burning my skin and causing blisters or my skin to crack and bleed, so my SO had to pick up the task of doing dishes and our kids baths on top of working. I became allergic to tomatoes, which I can now have but can’t stand the taste of anymore. After my second pregnancy, a childhood allergy to lavender went away somehow - just smelling the plant would give me an instant migraine and cause my nose to start gushing blood, and my legs and arms would spasm and jerk. Now I’m able to even bake with it, make carpet freshener, use essential oils for bug spray etc. Thankfully all that ended, but holy hell I wouldn’t wish that on anyone, on top of feeling like I can’t do anything because my body can’t handle it. I’m 4 weeks postpartum after a super fast delivery (we almost had to deliver her in our car), I honestly can’t even tell that I had a baby or that I was even pregnant since 1 week pp. I’ve already lost 23 lbs and am back into my pre-pregnancy clothes.