Emotional pregnancy

For the last few months I’ve been holding in a lot of anger. I been acting like am happy and am just emotional. I feel unappreciated, every year on my anniversary or husband birthday I get him something special. I do everything out of love. My birthday comes nothing the last 3 anniversary have been a bluh I alway come up with ideas. I want to be treated like I was when we met. He’s a great person it’s just his first marriage was not for love. He was serving his country and she was out in the US serving different men. He married her because she had a kid, that he found out later wasn’t his. Am I been unreasonable.